Posh With Purpose

I’ve been debating about writing why I Posh in the first place. Even as a college graduate, I had always been more interested in the visual creativity of fashion vs. the analytical creativity side that I got lost in. It was never a question of if I was talented, but who was going to give me a chance to show my visual creativity. So many bumps and bruises along the way, but I finally feel like I’m right where I need to be. Here’s my story:

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How To Avoid Getting Scammed On Poshmark

As you all know, I love love love Poshmark!! It’s been fun for me to sell to other people and make a little money on the side doing it. However, anytime you have a lot of greatness going on, there are bound to be a small population of bad apples attempting to spoil the whole bunch.

Most of my buyers have been absolutely top notch and thankfully I have never been at the receiving end of what I would call a scam. However, recently I had a close encounter with the sketchy kind. The situation led me to vent and voice how I have handled, what I learned, and tips to help my fellow Posh sellers. I hope to use this post to help us all be more shrewd in our dealings and keep the fun alive. Hang on, it’s about to get deep!

***Let me first preface that people who choose to scam make a bad name for a fun place like Posh. Poshmark will protect sellers in some cases, but I also want to find ways to help myself.***

So the scenario went like this:

The buyer had submitted an offer on my item and we tethered back and forth until finding a price we both agreed on. Minutes after accepting the final offer I see a note from the buyer that they used the wrong card and asked if I could cancel the order so they could buy with a different card.

I didn’t hugely mind since I’m not ever in a hurry to sell so I agreed to it. I recreated the listing fully aware the buyer might just walk away and I gave them a potential out. Thankfully they did repurchase and I promptly wrapped the package and dropped it off at the post.

About an hour later I log back in to let the buyer know the package is on its way to only to be met with a string of old messages from the buyer once again requesting me to cancel for the second time!

At this point there’s nothing I can do since the package is no longer in my possession and it isn’t officially tracking by usps. I immediately respond with an update to the buyer and Posh to see if anything can be done.

While waiting for a response from Posh, things get even more odd due to the slew of excuses as to why the cancel is needed by the buyer. There is also a request that maybe I should cancel anyway so they can be refunded and they state they will send my package as soon as it’s received by them. I’m no Einstein, but cancelling an item without it physically present sounds like a bad call and of course I decline that option.

While still waiting to hear from Posh the buyer suggests they will just open a case and “find something wrong” so they can still return. At this point I’m quite upset because that would make me look like a shady seller and I am certainly not! I respond that I don’t think that’s a good idea and I’ll let them know as soon as I hear from Posh.

On the day usps had marked my item as “delivered”, the buyer made a claim they did not receive the item and I get an email from Posh that they are working on the issue and looking into it. *I must note that at this point I am hugely skeptical that the buyer is being truthful seeing as how up until now some very odd behavior has been going on.

All in all the buyer, after first claiming to have not received the package, must have eventually found it and marked it as accepted. I’m not sure if Posh took over or urged them to look harder, but the entire experience left me wanting to give some tips about how to avoid getting involved in shady dealings and scams.

Here are some quick tips on how to handle and in some cases avoid bad buys:

1. Allow the regular transaction window to pass before shipping an item. On regular purchases (items that are not negotiated), there is a 3 hour window where the buyer is able to cancel if they choose. Allow this time to pass before actually dropping the package at the post office. I’ve heard of buyers cancelling while a package is in this gray area window causing the item to still be shipped to them. What ends up happening is the buyer receives the free item (unless they chose to return of their own merit) and they get their money refunded back. The seller will have to contact Poshmark and explain what happened and get their funds.

2. Check out who you’re selling to. Look at the Posher’s “About Me” and the comments made on items they’ve sold. Are you seeing a lot of drama? Are they repeatedly shipping late or having issues? Are they selling fakes or taking transactions offline? All these are red flags that this might be a buyer you don’t want to get involved with and maybe someone you want to avoid selling to. I’d rather wait and sell to someone who is going to make the process simple rather than get involved in drama for a sell.

3. Send each item per tracking number given. Sometimes shady buyers will purchase multiple items from your closet but not bundle. This will cause multiple shipping labels to be sent to your email. Then what can happen is they might request you send everything in one box and they will claim the other items as “Not Shipped” even though technically it was shipped.

4. Videotape high dollar items or bundles as you wrap and take them to the post. I do this for every item over $50 in my closet. This is just my own insurance policy for peace of mind. That way any claims about condition can be proven accurate just in case.

5. Keep Posh involved! The moment I sensed something fishy with my this buyer, I got Posh involved. I sent a note explaining what was happening and asked what to do. It’s a lot easier to let Posh handle things that are starting to get messy.

6. Videotape the receipt and opening of returned packages!!! I cannot stress this enough. Let’s say a case is opened by the buyer and Posh sides with them about the item and they are to send it back to you. It’s in your best interest to video yourself opening the package to make 100% sure it is what you sent. Also, if it’s not what you sent, you have absolute video proof.

7. Potentially ward off scammers in the first place by including your own personal safety measures in your “About Me” listing. This is a proactive approach I’m probably going to end up using now that my following is larger. This is helpful to let everyone know you’re a serious seller and you take precautions with every sell. Who knows, that might just be enough to make a potential bad buyer not even fool with you.

Well there you have it, several tips on how to potentially avoid scammers and ward off bad buyers. I hope this has been educational and helpful. And just as a quick note, I did get my full payment for this sale. As always, thoughts, comments, and questions welcomed! Until next time, happy Poshing 😃

7 Of My Postpartum Faves

Every time I go through a life change my clothing evolves. Obviously having a baby takes a toll on the body and in my need to feel comfortable and stylish I have developed this reoccurring obsession with a select few items in my closet. These are the items I wear almost weekly simply because I feel they give me a little edge without looking too mommy-ish.

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Case Opened: Valuable Lessons From Poshmark As A Buyer

As a Poshmark seller, there have been times I felt treated unfairly. If any of you have ready my post “Case Closed: Valuable Lessons From Poshmark As A Seller” I give my perspective on what it’s like to have a claim opened against you and how to cope. Maybe some of you have been in that position and had valuable takeaways. But what about the other side of things? What if you open a claim against someone else. I’ve had to do this before and I’d like to share my lessons learned. Hold on to your hats, it’s about to get deep!! Continue reading “Case Opened: Valuable Lessons From Poshmark As A Buyer”

Maternity Swimsuit Hack

I love swimming! It’s cooling, refreshing, just an all out relaxing time. During the summer I usually hit up the store to struggle through try on after try on of swimwear. Believe it or not, I’m actually more of a modest person when it comes to my swim gear. I don’t like to show a lot of skin so there’s an extra challenge when it comes to carrying a baby and trying to find a swimsuit.There are several problems when one is in full belly mode and wants to find a decent bathing suit.

1. Most maternity swimwear is online only. This sucks because there’s the potential that it won’t fit AND I have to wait for it to be shipped. (That wasn’t an option for me. I needed a swimsuit like yesterday).

2. Maternity swimwear is specialty so it gets those lovely specialty prices. I’m looking at price tags of $70+ for something I won’t even wear but a couple of times.

3. A lot of maternity bathing suits I found to be heavily one pieced and very few high waisted options. For us non bare skin belly gals with long torsos, one pieces are a gamble when not pregnant and the high waist I mostly found, again, online only. Womp!

What’s a gal to do?????? Well I’ll share what I did. I looked at a couple of things to help me find a reasonable solution. What is swimwear? Usually a suit made up of spandex and nylon. You know what else is made up of nylon and spandex???? Underwear. Yup! You can literally go to any store and find plain black high waist briefs or boy shorts and they will be just as good and probably less expensive than regular swim gear and no one is the wiser. Unfortunately I couldn’t find any that would fit my belly at the moment but best believe I will be using that hack!

Another thing I thought of was the dynamic. If I HAVE to wear a 2 piece, I just need the top long enough to cover my belly. I can still wear the bottoms and feel no shame. Enter Old Navy. I found a really cute luxe tank made from mostly rayon that fit the bill. Rayon is another synthetic fiber you will see a lot of swimwear made from. My tank was on sale for $12 so I snagged it up. 

I wanted to have a fun mix and match texture to my top so I headed to Target to find some bottoms. I ran across a very cute pair of black and white stripe swim bottoms for $18. Black and white is perfect because it can go with so many different items. This was exactly what I was hoping for.

Within the hour I had a complete modest maternity swim set that I was able to purchase in store for $30! Not bad for a first attempt. I’m so happy with my hack and glad that I’ll be able to wear the tank even postpartum. Hope this helps anyone out there that might run into the same dilemma. Always remember there’s another less expensive way! Happy shopping 😊 

Poshiquette: Etiquette For Dealing On Posh

Oh this post has been a loooong time coming. I LOVE Poshing. Nothing brings me more pleasure than to sit down with a warm cup of tea and chill on my phone Poshing away.

However, on several occasions, I have started to notice the larger my audience, the more challenges I face when just dealing with people whether buyers or sellers. Since no one in particular asked the question: “Hey Kim, what are some things I want to avoid while being on Posh?”.  I’ve decided to ask and answer of my own merit lol!!! Let’s jump right in! Continue reading “Poshiquette: Etiquette For Dealing On Posh”

Louis Vuitton: Petit Noé

I want to cue you in on something, no one ever needs more than three (that’s right three) handbags. The classic tote, cross-body, and clutch work just fine. Now ask me why I decided to get a Vintage Louis Vuitton Petit Noé Bucket Bag and I’ll say this doesn’t count because it’s a want, not a need 😜. Continue reading “Louis Vuitton: Petit Noé”

Let’s Talk 50K

A lot went down while I was out on Poshmark. Behind the scenes I was mostly filling my days with sleeping, eating, and dealing with constant nauseousness from being in the first trimester of pregnancy. I tried my hardest not to let too much time get in between me and one of my favorite things to do, but even so, I just wasn’t able to hang on all the time. Continue reading “Let’s Talk 50K”

It’s Been Too Long


Oh. My. Goodness!!!! I haven’t blogged in forever and I must say I genuinely miss writing. It has been entirely too long since I’ve mentioned a food post, a fashion post, or an adventurous post….and I’ve been hearing it from all sides too lol! I had to wait until I could be consistent so for the last few months I’ve been collecting photos in hopes of catching the blog back up. Now I believe it’s FINALLY time.

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Case Closed: Valuable Lessons From Poshmark As A Seller

Being on Poshmark is a lot like being in high school. There’s lots of community, drama, and excitement. As much as I enjoy selling and shopping the app, there are times I’ve also gotten frustrated; when I feel like I’ve been treated unfairly as the buyer or the seller. On this and the next few posts I want to talk about challenging experiences and what to learn from them. Get ready, it’s about to get deep!

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